By: Kimba Campbell
Bringing young children into the worship service is a wonderful opportunity for families and churches to nurture children’s faith together. It can feel intimidating for parents as they wonder if their child will sit still, be too loud, or be a distraction for others. With thoughtful preparation and a welcoming church culture, worship can become a cherished family experience.
Sunday Morning Success Starts at Home
A smooth worship experience begins before families even leave the house. Here are some tried-and-true tips for parents:
- Pick out clothes the night before. This simple step reduces stress and helps kids know what to expect.
- Eat a good breakfast and bring a snack. Preschool classes often provide snacks, but kindergarten and older kids may need something from home. A full tummy helps kids focus.
- Get a drink and use the bathroom before service. These routines minimize interruptions and help children settle down.
- Find a seat where the child can see. Seeing what’s happening helps kids feel included and engaged, especially if it’s their first time in “big church.”
Creating a Child-Friendly Worship Culture
Churches can make a big difference by intentionally welcoming families:
- Create a welcoming, child-friendly environment. Let families know that children are valued in worship, even if they are a little wiggly. Providing special stickers for the children to put on their shirts or dresses help church members identify children who are new to “big church.”
- Allow time for kids to meet the staff. Introduce children to pastors, worship leaders, and other staff so they feel welcome and known.
- Provide church bags (“Big Enough Bags”). Fill bags with coloring pages, activity sheets, crayons, chenille stems, and stickers.
- Share worship playlists with parents. Familiar music helps children participate and look forward to singing together.
- Reserve a family-friendly space in the worship center. Sitting together helps parents relax and children feel secure, especially when attending for the first time.
- Educate parents about home resources. Equip families with devotionals, playlists, and guides for continuing faith conversations at home.
Parenting During Service: Tips for Success
Parenting during the service is a learning process for both adults and children. Here are some ways to make it easier:
- Guide parents in talking to kids about the offering, baptism and the Lord’s Supper. These conversations help children understand what is happening during the service.
- Consider presenting certificates for milestones. Recognizing children’s steps in faith makes them feel special.
- Encourage participation. Invite children to stand, sing, and pray with the congregation. Let them move during music and respond to parts of the service.
- Model positive attitudes. Speak about worship as a privilege (“We get to go to worship!”) and set loving, realistic expectations for behavior.
Embracing the Wiggly, Beautiful Reality
Worshiping with children is rarely picture-perfect. There will be distractions, noise, and moments of frustration, but these are opportunities for growth and connection. With preparation and a welcoming church, families can discover the joy of worshiping together as they build spiritual foundations that will last a lifetime.
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