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5 Leadership Lessons from the Bible: Nehemiah

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Nehemiah: How do leaders think?

After I arrived in Jerusalem and had been there three days, I got up at night and took a few men with me. I didn’t tell anyone what my God had laid on my heart to do for Jerusalem. The only animal I took was the one I was riding. Nehemiah 2:11-12

Nehemiah was the rare leader who was simultaneously a visionary and an organizer. Usually, leaders are one or the other. Visionaries tend to be so lofty and big picture in their thinking that they struggle with implementation and execution. At the same time, organizers tend to be so detail-oriented and grounded in their thinking that they struggle to dream.

For most leaders, the goal is to excel in one area and be competent in the other. But every once in awhile there are leaders who excels in both—like Nehemiah. I love how the Book of Nehemiah captures Nehemiah’s heart and how his vision and planning intertwined so tightly. We don’t just see a leader who had a vision for a rebuilt city, but he thought strategically, and organized the people to build portions of the wall by family, knowing that families will work with more conviction and effectiveness together.

Nehemiah looked at the task God had given him, pondered the solution, and motivated the people to work together even in the midst of opposition. That’s leadership! Here are five tips for thinking strategically in our ministries:  

  • Read leadership books. One of the best ways to learn to think like a leader is to read books written by leaders. There are many good leadership books written from a Christian perspective, but don’t limit yourself to those. There are fantastic leadership books that you can learn so much from, even if they are not written from a biblical worldview. Be discerning when you read these (as you should be with Christian leadership books too), but don’t be afraid to read a business best-seller just because it comes from a different worldview.
  • Guard time to dream and think. This may be a challenge, but it is worth it. Leading your ministry doesn’t always mean people have to always see you doing something. Being busy is not the same thing as being effective. One of the most effective things you can do is to guard time to dream, think, and pray. Nehemiah did. More importantly, Jesus did too. Schedule time on your calendar to get away by yourself as an appointment and keep it.
  • Set wise goals. Goals are an essential part of strategic thinking as a leader. Former Major League Baseball player Yogi Berra is credited as saying, “‘If you don’t know where you are going, you‘ll end up someplace else.” It’s a pretty humorous quip, but it is also saturated with truth. If you don’t set goals in your ministry, you won’t be able to guide and direct where you believe God wants you to go. So set goals, but be sure they are wise ones. Your goals should stretch you, your leaders, and your ministry, but they need to be realistic too.
  • Evaluate. Like dreaming, it is critical that leaders guard time to evaluate. While the frantic pace of ministry makes regular evaluation difficult, it is worth the time and effort. When something goes well in ministry, evaluate the reasons so you can replicate them. Also consider if the event could have even be better. Likewise, if something doesn’t go well, look for what went wrong and what can be improved for next time. Find wins in it too. Very rarely is a ministry event a total loss.
  • Include your leaders and leadership team. Don’t miss that Nehemiah took some others with him as he developed a plan. As you think, dream, and evaluate, involve others as much as you can. God has given you and your team different experiences, perspectives, and abilities for a reason. Inviting others to think strategically with you is good for you, your team, and your ministry.

Next time — Barnabas: How do leaders breathe life into their teams?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Encouragement, Kids Ministry, Leadership

5 Leadership Lessons from the Bible: Peter

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How do leaders handle adversity?

Peter stood up with the Eleven, raised his voice, and proclaimed to them: “Fellow Jews and all you residents of Jerusalem, let me explain this to you and pay attention to my words.” Acts 2:14

So there was Peter at Pentecost—standing boldly before a large crowd of Jews telling them that they had killed the Messiah. What a difference 40 days had made. Or to be correct, what a difference the Holy Spirit makes! Was this the same Peter who denied Jesus three times during His arrest and trials? Afraid of a little girl’s accusations? Yet now He stood in the very city where the crowds had shouted, “Crucify Him!” and proclaimed that very Him—Jesus—to the people. No, this wasn’t the same Peter, because this was Peter empowered by the Holy Spirit.

Let’s not sugarcoat this though. Peter preached boldly under the very real possibility that he might be arrested and condemned to die. Remember that the leaders had just done that to Jesus shortly before this, so why would we think they would spare Peter from a similar fate? And yet Peter was undeterred by the adversity he faced. Now that’s leadership!

We’ve addressed opposition and failures before this, but adversity is a little different from those ideas. Adversity can certainly include opposition and failures, but it isn’t limited to them. In ministry we will experience adversity in different forms—shrinking budgets, losing leaders, even rain during an event. So what can we do when we experience adversity in our ministries? Here are five tips for when that happens:

  • Expect adversity. Especially if you are taking risks, as you should be as a leader. Adversity is going to happen, so brace yourself for it and plan for it as much as you can. For instance, you know that you will have leadership turnover—people will move, they will step down, they will leave your church. Planning for that adversity might mean always developing new leaders and a leadership pipeline to move new people into open slots on your team. Plan for adversity as much as you can and don’t allow it to frazzle you.
  • Never ever give up. Peter is a fantastic encouragement to us in this regard. As much as he messed up in the Gospels, he never gave up. He persevered. He handled adversity and kept plugging away. And that’s what you need to do as well. Don’t let adversity stop you from doing that which God has called you to do.
  • Get back up right away. This is connected to the last point but it is so critical it deserves its own point. Learn from this lesson we tell our kids when they are learning how to ride their bikes—when you fall, get right back up! Staying down opens a door to wallowing, self-pity, and despair. None of those are good for you, your leadership, or your ministry. You just learned your budget will be cut in half? Call your team together, grab your calculators, and figure out how you will make it work.
  • Read biographies. This is a good leadership tip in general, but it is especially helpful when it comes to handling adversity. Two reasons. First, reading about other people reminds you that adversity is not unique to you. We all experience it. Second, you don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Seeing how others handled adversity can give you ideas for how you can do the same.
  • Focus on what God has given you, not what you think He has withheld from you. I had to learn this lesson early in ministry when I found myself taking attendance by who was not there rather than who was there. I would find myself grumbling that more people weren’t at events, all the while missing the kids who were there! You plan an event and expect 100 to show but only 10 do? Don’t focus on the 90 in that moment—you can’t do anything for them right then anyway. But you can make a world of difference in the lives of the 10 who came. Focus on the gift God has given you.

Next time — Nehemiah: How do leaders think?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership

5 Leadership Lessons from the Bible: David

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David: How do leaders handle their failings?

For I am conscious of my rebellion, and my sin is always before me. Against you—​you alone—​I have sinned and done this evil in your sight. So you are right when you pass sentence; you are blameless when you judge. Psalm 51:3-4

We often think of David as one of the greatest heroes in the Bible. He was the young shepherd who defeated Goliath. He was the beloved king and ancestor of Jesus. He was the prolific writer of many of the Psalms.

But David was not perfect, of course. Actually, he was far from it—reminding us once again that everyone needs God’s gift of grace and that Jesus is the greatest and true hero.

David wrote Psalm 51 after Nathan the prophet confronted him about perhaps David’s most grievous sins—adultery with Bathsheba and murder of her husband, Uriah. David had done his best to hide these sins for about a year, but sin cannot be hidden from God. Trapped in his sin, David was broken. He confessed his sins to God and penned Psalm 51 as a prayer.

As leaders, we can learn much about how to handle our failings from David. While our failures may not be on the level as David’s, we will fail. We will sin. We will make mistakes. We will fail our leaders, our parents, our kids, and perhaps even our church. But what we do in those times will speak loudly about who we are, and more importantly about the gospel. Here are five tips to remember the next time you fail:

  • Confess your sin to God. Often what seems like it should go without saying is what needs to be said the most—like this. When your failure is born out of sin, confess that sin to God and rest in His grace, mercy, love, and forgiveness. If you are not right with God, your ministry will not flourish. So keep a short account of your sin with God.
  • Confess to others when needed. While all of our sin is ultimately against God, we often sin against others as well. Perhaps you weren’t quite honest with your pastor. Maybe you got angry at a parent or took credit for something one of your team members did. When you fail as a leader in times like this, confess your sin to God and the person you wronged. No one believes you are perfect, so don’t act like you are by never confessing failures to others. People need a kids leader they can trust—be one by being honest about your failures.
  • Learn from your failings. Treat every failure as an opportunity to learn. Wise, strong leaders learn more from their mistakes than their successes. If your failing was rooted in a sin, get underneath it and try to understand why you sinned in the first place. Why were you afraid to be honest? Why did you get mad? Pride? Perfectionism? Get to the root of the issue and let God work there. If the failing was more of a tactical issue, determine if you could have prevented the failure ahead of time or what you can change and do differently next time. This is a great place to invite others to help you evaluate.
  • Build relationships. Having quality relationships with your peers, leaders, parents, and kids is vital because relationship equity is so important when navigating failures. The more you love others, the more honest you will be with them as you deal with your failures. At the same time, the more others love you, the more they will be apt to forgive you and encourage you through them.
  • Ask at least two others to hold you accountable. Just as David needed Nathan to confront him, you need to give someone in your life permission to step in and say the hard things that need to be said. Seek two other people—ideally people who have a different view of you as a leader—and ask them to hold you accountable in your leadership and life.

Next time — Peter: How do leaders handle adversity?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership

Leadership Lessons from the Bible: John the Baptist

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How do leaders handle success?  

He who has the bride is the groom. But the groom’s friend, who stands by and listens for him, rejoices greatly at the groom’s voice. So this joy of mine is complete. He must increase, but I must decrease.” John 3:29-30

What is the first thing you think of when you read “John the Baptist?” Probably camel hair, locusts, and honey right? Most of us think of John as this rather odd guy in the wilderness, and we fail to grasp his importance. The last prophet before John was Malachi—400 years earlier! After 400 years of silence, John was quite a celebrity. Sure he had his quirks, but he was actually quite popular.

And then Jesus showed up and that all changed. Jesus immediately drew a following—many people turning from John to follow Him.

John’s loyal disciples struggled with this. They too were used to the attention and now it was gone. But how did John take it?

“He must increase, but I must decrease.”

John got it. He understood that God had given him a following for one reason—to point those people to Jesus.

John is a great example of humility, especially in times of success. John didn’t let his following go to his head, he remained humble and held his following with an open hand.

Can we be honest? Sometimes it is hard to stay humble in ministry. Sometimes we can let it all go to our heads and we can start celebrating ourselves instead of pointing people to Jesus. Sometimes, if we are honest, we live as if we must increase and He must decrease.

We don’t want that, of course. It can just happen that way at times. So what can we do to prevent that? Here are five tips for handling success in ministry.

  • Celebrate wins with your team. Being humble doesn’t mean ignoring wins in your ministry. When God gives your ministry a win, celebrate it with your team! God deserves the credit and your team deserves to celebrate what God did through them.
  • Make your leaders the heros. Kids ministry is certainly a team effort! Be sure to always focus on your team when celebrating wins. Make it a habit to always point to your team when someone praises something you did or something that happened in ministry. Keeping the focus on them is good for them and good for your heart.
  • Point people to God’s goodness. While it is important to point people to your team, it is more important to point them to God. Anything good that happens in your ministry is out of God’s kindness and goodness. Anything not so good that happens is under God’s sovereign control. No matter what happens, take people to God.
  • Don’t put a cap on your ministry’s potential. There is always a balance when it comes to looking at wins. A mistake in one direction is to be too critical and not celebrate wins. A mistake in the opposite direction is to think you have arrived. A healthy, humble ministry perspective is in between. Celebrate the wins, but never be content with what God has done or limit what He can do. Evaluate to find out what could have been even better and where your kids ministry goes from here.
  • Keep realistic expectations. While you always want to be pushing to see God work even more in your ministry, and while God is infinite, we have to be careful not to set unrealistic expectations for ourselves and our teams. Just because God blew your doors off at this summer’s VBS doesn’t mean He necessarily will do it next summer. Pray for it, plan for it, but set realistic, yet challenging, goals.

Next time — David: How do leaders handle their failings?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership

5 Leadership Lessons from the Bible

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Joshua: How do leaders handle opposition?

Joshua son of Nun and Caleb son of Jephunneh, who were among those who scouted out the land, tore their clothes and said to the entire Israelite community: “The land we passed through and explored is an extremely good land. If the Lord is pleased with us, he will bring us into this land, a land flowing with milk and honey, and give it to us. Only don’t rebel against the Lord, and don’t be afraid of the people of the land, for we will devour them. Their protection has been removed from them, and the Lord is with us. Don’t be afraid of them! ” While the whole community threatened to stone them, the glory of the Lord appeared to all the Israelites at the tent of meeting. Numbers 14:6-10

God was right. The spies saw that the land God had promised to give them after their departure from Egypt was truly as good as He had said. The land offered them plenty of room and an amazing abundance of food and resources.

But it had another abundance too—plenty of strong people living in it who would not give it up without a fight.

That is why ten of the twelve spies told the people it was a lost cause. Trying to enter the land God had promised would result in death—theirs, not the people living in it. But Joshua and Caleb had reached another conclusion. The people in the land were great, but God is greater. If they trusted God, He would provide for them.

How did the people respond to the dissenting opinion of Joshua and Caleb? They wanted to kill them. Talk about opposition!

Joshua and Caleb didn’t waver from their trust in God, despite the brutal nature of their opposition. In the end, they entered the land when the other ten spies, and all of the people who wanted to kill them were dead. Joshua and Caleb saw God’s provision up close and personal.

As ministry leaders, we will face opposition and even though it most likely won’t be life-threatening, sometimes it may feel like it. So how can we handle opposition in a way that honors God and brings Him glory? Here are five lessons about handling opposition:

  • Consider the root of the opposition. Sometimes the criticism we hear is not really the root issue we need to consider. A teacher who is critical about moving to a new curriculum may not have a problem with the new materials, but in reality feels unvalued because she helped choose the previous curriculum and was not part of the decision-making process now. In that case, sharing the vision and strengths of the new resource isn’t going to help. Try to get to the root issues of the opposition which at times may require that you simply ask someone what they are.
  • Seek wisdom and counsel from others. A good leader will consider all criticism, but that can be hard at times, especially when the person being critical is doing so in a negative and adversarial manner. Surround yourself with people you trust and give them permission to speak truth to you in love. When someone is critical or opposing you, go to this team and ask for their feedback and wisdom. There will be times when the critical person is right, even if they are sharing their criticism in the wrong way. You may need help seeing that in the heat of the moment.
  • Love and pray for those sharing criticism with you. When someone shares criticism in the right way, pray for him and thank God for his feedback and the way he shared it. Thank God that he cared enough to share criticism. When someone shares criticism in the wrong way, pray for him too! Ask God to move in his heart and your heart. Pray for God to help you love that person with grace.
  • Appeal to the gospel when defending yourself. There will be times when someone opposes you or something in your ministry and you will need to defend yourself and your ministry. Be sure to anchor your defense on the gospel. For example, if someone is critical of the curriculum you use, don’t appeal to your experience in kids ministry or how many educators support it—take that person to the gospel. Explain why that curriculum advances the gospel in and through your kids. Always take your stand on the gospel. The gospel is a hill worth dying on.
  • Know when to “walk away.” Romans 10 is incredibly helpful when it comes to managing conflict and opposition. In this verse we read that when it is possible we are to live at peace with others. That caveat is critical! It means there will be times when it is not possible because the other person does not want to live in peace. Do all you can to reconcile with the person, but recognize there may be a time when you simply have to “walk away.” That doesn’t mean you can ostracize the person, but it does mean you continue to pray for reconciliation and shower them with love and grace, yet with firmness when necessary.

Next time—John the Baptist: How do leaders handle success?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership

5 Leadership Lessons from the Bible

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Esther: How do leaders handle risk?

“Go and assemble all the Jews who can be found in Susa and fast for me. Don’t eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my female servants will also fast in the same way. After that, I will go to the king even if it is against the law. If I perish, I perish.” Esther 4:16

Esther could have died. Let that sink in.

Although Esther was the queen, no one—not even the queen—could approach the king without his permission first. But time was of the essence and who knew when the king would call for Esther again.

Esther’s cousin, Mordecai, had discovered an evil plot to kill all of the Jews and the only hope for God’s people rested in Esther. If she could just go to the king and plead for her people on their behalf, perhaps they would be spared from the coming catastrophe.

But how could she approach the king without being invited? What if he didn’t receive her? She could die.

With Mordecai’s encouragement, Esther decided that it was worth the risk. She called for the Jews to fast and pray for her and then she would go to the king. If she died, she died. The risk was worth it. The fate of her people was more important than her own life.

God was kind to Esther and the risk she took ended up working out for her. The king received her and she ended up saving her people.

Ministry is full of risk—at least if we are doing it right. God continually wants us to step beyond ourselves, our comfort, and our own abilities. He wants us to sacrifice and risk for His kingdom and His glory. That’s hard for many leaders to do! Here are five lessons on how we can take risks as leaders:

  • Be bold, but not foolish. You can be too cautious and never take risks in ministry or you can go to the other extreme and throw caution to the wind. Neither approach is good for a leader. We want to be bold, but we don’t want to be foolish. Take those steps of faith, but pray and plan as you do. For example, it may be bold for you to change to a new kids curriculum, but it would be foolish to make the change on a Saturday and launch the next day! So be bold and take risks, but don’t take them lightly. Learn from Esther who preceded her risk with asking her people to pray for three days.
  • Consider the risk/reward ratio. A risk may be foolish if there is little upside and quite a bit of downside. This is known as the risk/reward ratio. If the negative impact of an action far outweighs the potential benefits, you may want to pray through it some more. Esther’s risk was her own life, but her reward was the lives of all of her people. The reward far out-weighed the risk. That is why it was wise of her to take that risk. The risk/reward ratio should not be the most important factor in considering an action, but it should certainly be weighed.
  • Include your leaders and your leadership. A wise leader is going to have a great team around him or her in the first place, but this is especially important when it comes to taking risks. Don’t take on risks by yourself. You have to bring others into the decision-making process. You will need different perspectives and thoughts. You will need partners bathing the risk in prayer. And you will need others to cast the vision of the risk and guide your ministry through it. Don’t take on risk alone. Take it on as a community.
  • Trust in God. The beauty of risk is that it pushes us closer to God. Once you determine that a risk is worth taking, don’t waver from trusting in God. Even as you wisely develop plans, you still need to trust in God to work those plans out. When we trust God during a risk we take, we position ourselves to bring Him glory if the risk works out, while simultaneously to bring Him glory if it doesn’t work out from our perspective. A leader and ministry that trusts God completely cannot be shaken.
  • Go all in. This last lesson is a natural byproduct of the previous one. When we trust God completely, we will go all in. Don’t make the mistake of sticking your big toe into the pool. Dive in! If God is leading you to take a risk, take it! Be wise. Communicate the vision. Pray over the decision. Honor God in what you do leading up to the risk, and then take it. Half-hearted risk-taking communicates what it really is—a failure to trust God and follow His leading.

Next time—Joshua: How do leaders handle opposition?

Brian Dembowczyk is the managing editor for The Gospel Project. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership, Volunteers

Leadership Lessons from the Bible: Hannah

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Deeply hurt, Hannah prayed to the Lord and wept with many tears.  Making a vow, she pleaded, “Lord of Hosts, if You will take notice of Your servant’s affliction, remember and not forget me, and give Your servant a son, I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life, and his hair will never be cut.” 1 Samuel 1:10-11

Hannah simply amazes me. Here was a woman who could not have any children—which was quite a stigma in her day—and it understandably devastated her. To make matters worse, one of her husband’s other wives delighted in mocking her because of her barrenness. (Quick aside: God never permitted polygamy and every time we see it practiced in the Old Testament, it causes trouble.)

Hannah was in such pain because of her inability to have children that she went to the temple and poured out her heart to God with such an intensity that Eli the priest thought she was drunk. But it is the subject of Hannah’s prayer more than her fervency that amazes me.

If God were to give Hannah a son, she would give him back to God. And that is what happened. God gave Hannah Samuel, and she took him to the temple to serve there once he was weaned. Hannah gave God one of her heart’s greatest desires.

Hannah was a godly woman because she was a woman of prayer and Hannah was a woman of prayer because she was a godly woman. Pray fuels intimacy with God and intimacy with God fuels prayer in a beautiful symbiotic relationship.

Our leadership thrives in direct proportion to the health of our relationship with Christ. And as we learn from Hannah, prayer is a vital component of that relationship. Here are five leadership lessons on how we can thrive through prayer:

  • Pray regularly. The fuel of any relationship is communication, and a relationship with Jesus is no different. Praying regularly is vital. Having a set time to pray each day is a great start, but think of ways that you can pray more throughout your day such as when you are driving, when you are brushing your teeth, and when you are waiting in lines. Prayer can turn these rather mundane times into refreshing times with God.
  • Read Scripture first. When possible, preface your time of prayer by reading Scripture. Scripture will help you focus your time of prayer properly. Instead of praying through a man-centered lens of what you want from God, spending time in the Bible first will reorient your heart and mind to want to pursue God’s glory in your prayer.
  • Don’t confine yourself to a formula. There are several outlines designed to ensure you pray in a well-rounded way. While these can be helpful to keep in mind, do not limit yourself by them. Structure can sometimes lead to a wooden, formulaic prayer life and can hinder its authenticity. There will be times when you will simply want to pray thanking God for who He is. There may be other times when you will need to pray just confessing sin to God.  
  • Be transparent with God. Following up to the previous lesson, strive for your prayer to be transparent. Be real with God. It’s not like you can fool Him anyway! If you are upset like Hannah, share that. If you are confused, angry, happy, worried, frustrated, or whatever else, let God know.
  • Pray for others. Enjoying a vibrant prayer life and deepening your relationship with Christ will greatly grow you as a leader alone. But it is when you also pray meaningfully for your kids, kids leaders, parents, and other church leaders that your leadership will grow to the next level. Develop the habit of asking others how you can pray for them and doing it.

Brian Dembowczyk is the team leader for The Gospel Project for Kids. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

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The Big Picture Easter Bundle

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Easter not only provides us with the opportunity to share the gospel message with our guests, but with our regular attending kids as well. One of the greatest joys of kids ministries is seeing our kids grow and reach the point where they can respond to the gospel by trusting in Christ. And the great thing about our regular kids is that we don’t have to contain the Easter story to just one Sunday—we can spread it out over several weeks and go even deeper to help move our kids toward saving faith in Christ.

The Gospel Project for Kids team has just released a new Easter Bible study resource called The Big Picture Easter Bundle. If you currently use The Gospel Project in your ministry, you will have an Easter unit included in your Spring 2017 content. However if you do not currently use The Gospel Project, and would like to experience a gospel-centered Easter resource, this may be just what you are looking for. This five-session digital resource can be used in your preschool and grade school classes all five Sundays in April to share the compelling story of the final week of Jesus’ earthly ministry, His crucifixion, resurrection, and appearances to His disciples.

Each session is designed to last one hour and includes downloadable Bible story videos, songs, music videos, leader guides, activity pages, posters, coloring sheets, cards, and more. The Big Picture Easter Bundle includes all of that for preschool and grade school and more for just $74.99. Churches can print as many of the resources as they need for their leaders and kids, making this a one-size-fits-all resource!

The five sessions include:   

  • The Last Supper
  • Jesus’ Triumphal Entry
  • Jesus’ Crucifixion and Resurrection
  • The Emmaus Disciples
  • Jesus Appeared to the Disciples

Each of the sessions will help share the Easter story with your preschoolers and kids, with each one pointing directly to the good news of the gospel through a Christ connection. If you are looking for Easter content to share with your preschoolers and kids, our hope is that The Big Picture Easter Bundle would be a resource that you could use to show your kids God’s love made known to us in His Son, Jesus Christ.

To learn more about The Big Picture Easter Bundle, visit www.gospelproject.com/easter.

Brian Dembowczyk is the team leader for The Gospel Project for Kids. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Encouragement, Kids Ministry, Leadership

Leadership Lessons from the Bible: Paul

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How do leaders stay motivated?

To the weak I became weak, in order to win the weak. I have become all things to all people, so that I may by every possible means save some. Now I do all this because of the gospel, so I may become a partner in its benefits. 1 Corinthians 9:22-23

Before he was Paul, leading missionary and theologian of the fledgling church, he was Saul, leading Pharisee and persecutor of the church. Saul was the ideal Jew—the Jew’s Jew—as we read in his “resume” in 2 Corinthians 11.

But then he walked away from all of that one day after Jesus captivated his heart on the Damascus road. From the moment Paul was blinded by a light, his life was put on a much different trajectory. He turned from all the benefits his life in the Jewish inner circles afforded him and instead he spent the rest of his days traveling to advance the gospel. He was arrested, whipped, beaten, stoned, and shipwrecked three times. Why did he endure all that? What got him out of bed in the morning knowing there was a good chance he would be rejected, hurt, and possibly even killed that day? It was what the gospel had done in his life and his joy to partake in sharing that same gospel of Jesus Christ with others.

And that’s what we need to remember and hold dear. Ministry is hard! Leadership is challenging! There will be plenty of times when we will want to throw in the towel and do something else—anything else. But the gospel will be the one thing to bring us back to where we need to be. The gospel is what will get us out of bed in the morning.

Here are five leadership lessons for how you can help stay motivated by the gospel and to persevere with joy in your ministry:

  • Spend time in the Word. The best way to keep the gospel in your heart is to spend time in God’s Word—the story of the gospel. Protect this time and resist the urge to study merely to teach what you learn. Approach the Bible as a starving person would approach a buffet.
  • Spend time in the world. It is common for people in ministry and church to fall into the “holy bubble” trap. We spend so much time in church and with other believers that we become blind to the world around us and how desperately people need Jesus. Read the paper. Watch the news. Be part of your city. Appreciate the need for gospel transformation in your city.
  • Connect all you do to the gospel. Everything we do in ministry should advance the gospel. Everything. Knowing the strategic value of what you do—even the mundane tasks—will help you stay committed to them even when they frustrate you and wear you out.
  • Surround yourself with encouragers. We all need people who genuinely love us and want what’s best for us. Find those people and keep them close. Now this doesn’t mean that you want to put “yes men” all around you. True encouragers love you enough to speak hard things to you—in love. These are the people who will be in our corner through thick and thin pushing us to stay faithful to the gospel.
  • Journal. We have such short memories about the positive and such long memories about the negative. Help yourself remember God’s goodness and kindness to you and your ministry by journaling—especially about God’s provisions. Then when you enter those darker times of ministry, pull these journals off the shelf to remember how amazingly wonderful God is to you.

Next time—Hannah: How do leaders thrive?

Dembowczyk, BrianBrian Dembowczyk is the team leader for The Gospel Project for Kids. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

Kids Ministry, Leadership

Leadership Lessons from the Bible

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Dembowczyk, BrianJesus: How do leaders see themselves?  

For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life—a ransom for many. Mark 10:45

God has given us a wonderful gift in allowing us to serve in kids ministry. Each week, we get to point kids to the beauty and power of the gospel. Each week, we get to share about God’s love, grace, and holiness. We also get to talk about forgiveness of sin through Jesus Christ. What a privilege!

But at the same time, serving in kids ministry is a weighty responsibility. God has entrusted these kids to us and we need to steward their minds and hearts well. While centering our ministry on the gospel is of utmost importance, another big part of honoring God’s calling in kids ministry is to lead well. We want to be leaders who honor God in our conduct and actions and who maximize our ministry resources for God’s glory.

There are countless great leadership books available, but perhaps there is no better book on leadership than the Bible. Read as many leadership books as you can get your hands on, but don’t neglect learning leadership principles from God’s Word.

In this 12-part series, we are going to look at some notable, and a few overlooked, leaders in the Bible to see what godly leadership principles we can discover. We’ll begin with the greatest leader ever—Jesus.

When you think of the leadership of Jesus, it doesn’t take very long for servanthood to come to mind. Jesus offers the purest definition of a servant-leader possible. The Son of God humbled Himself by wrapping Himself in human flesh (Philippians 2) and seeking to serve, rather than be served (Mark 10:45). The Creator stepping into His creation not demanding to be waited on hand and foot, but instead seeking to take on the role of the lowest of servants for His Father’s glory.

What a beautiful and critical reminder for us! No matter what our level of authority in kids ministry is, how many people we supervise, or how fruitful our ministry is, we should always position ourselves as a servant to others—God, our ministry teams, our parents, and our kids. We are there for them; they are not there for us.

So what does Jesus-like servant-leadership look like in kids ministry? Here are five leadership lessons on how we can serve others:

  • Pray for others. Guard time to pray for your church leaders, ministry leaders, kids, and parents. Send a card every once in awhile letting them know you are praying for them and are grateful for them.
  • Ask others what you can do for them. Make it a habit to ask others what you can do for them. How can you help them? How can you serve them? What do they need from you?
  • Respect others. Value every person’s role and his input—even when it is critical. You don’t have to agree with what he shares with you, but you need to love the person enough to listen, consider what is said, and then, in time, respond.
  • Strive to do every ministry task at least once. You should not do everything as a regular part of your ministry rhythm. Delegation is a critical leadership skill. However, you should try to do every task at least once to experience it and to show that no task is beneath you. Don’t ever ask others to do what you are not willing to do yourself.
  • Spend time with and love God and your family well. What does this have to do with being a servant-leader? Nothing and everything. It has nothing to do with servant-leadership in practical terms, but it has everything to do with being a healthy, balanced leader. One of the most common mistakes in ministry is to serve others and invest so much time and energy into ministry that you fail to enjoy and develop your relationship with Christ or fail to love your family well. The best leader is the leader who puts God first, his or her family second, and ministry after that. Not just on paper or in lip-service, but in reality. If you aren’t walking with God and loving your family, you will not be a servant-leader in your ministry.

Next time—Paul: How do leaders stay motivated?

Brian Dembowczyk is the team leader for The Gospel Project for Kids. He served in local church ministry for over 16 years before coming to LifeWay. Brian earned an M.Div. from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a D.Min. from the New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He and his family live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

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