By Anna Sargeant

This is the second post of a two-part series on missional Sunday school, an approach to Sunday school that focuses on training kids to openly and eagerly share what they have gained in the gospel with others. Check out the first part here.

Even if we are convinced that kids can be on mission for Jesus, the question now is How? I don’t have a silver bullet for you, but I do have some thoughts based on the years I spent in children’s ministry. These are four simple tools for training kids to have a missional mindset: 

• Bible Study Setup and Approach
• A Simple Gospel Framework
• Circles of Influence
• Prayers for the Unreached

Bible Study Setup and Approach

One tool for training kids in a missional mindset is to consider your Bible study setup and approach to discussion.

First of all, ask yourself: Who is reading the Scripture passages? Is it a leader every time, or do leaders invite the kids to read the Bible out loud in front of the whole group too? If kids are not used to reading the Bible at church with believers, why would they be comfortable reading it aloud in their home with non-believers? 

Next, ask: Who leads the Bible story discussion? Delegate this role to older elementary-aged kids whenever possible. Invite them to ask questions among peers or lead a group of younger kids alongside an adult. Fourth and fifth graders can start Bible studies in their homes—I’ve seen it! They got the training wheels for doing so at church. 

Next, consider: What kinds of questions are we asking in our small group? Are they only reading comprehension questions? Or do they also encourage the kids to tell someone else what they’ve learned or to share their faith? For years, we used Discovery Bible Study questions in our children’s ministry. The questions are low-bar and work well with kids:

1. What does this story teach me about God? 
2. What does this story teach me about people? 
3. If this story is true, what needs to change about my life? 
4. Who can I tell what I learned?

The last two questions are particularly helpful in helping kids develop a missional mindset. It helps them see that the Bible is not just for learning about—it’s for obeying and talking about too! 

A Simple Gospel Framework

Years ago, our team developed a simple, repeatable gospel framework through which to teach every lesson called The 7 Basic Truths. These truths are meant to teach biblical theology in simple terms. But we also wrote them to help children easily recall to talk about the gospel with their friends. 

The 7 Basic Truths include

• God made everything, including me. 
• God is king of everything, including me. 
• God is good and is the greatest treasure in the world. 
• I am born a sinner and need a rescuer. 
• Jesus is the rescuer who can bring me to the greatest treasure in the world. 
• God gives us the Holy Spirit who helps us remember and obey what Jesus taught.
• Tell the world that Jesus is the rescuer!

Lifeway has something similar to these Basic Truths called The Gospel: God’s Plan for Me. And your children’s ministry might have a completely different set of key gospel phrases. The point is, once you have a simple, repeatable framework like this, remind your kids that God’s plan is not just for them, but it’s for their friends, neighbors, and teammates too. Give your kids a simple tool that makes the gospel familiar and comfortable to talk about! 

Circles of Influence 

Another tool for developing a missional mindset is understanding circles of influence. For a young child, their circles of influence are primarily the home and maybe the neighborhood, if they go on playdates. Church could be included in the neighborhood sphere. For older children, their circles of influence include school (which takes up a lot of their time), and community (which includes sports teams, music clubs, etc.). 

The idea here is to show kids that God has placed them in certain circles, not just for their own benefit, but so the people they come in contact with inside those circles will encounter Jesus through them. Paul reminds us:

“And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him.” Acts 17:26-27 

Knowing that God has put you in a certain house on a certain street in a certain class in a certain school can be an exciting realization! Kids need to know that their situations are not happenstance: they are God-ordained. And as they enter those circles of influence, God is going with them and using them to help other people find Him. 

Prayers for the Unreached 

While it’s hard for children to be missional to unreached people groups—because most unreached people groups are not in their circles of influence—it is not hard for them to pray for those who have never heard the name of Jesus!

You can start educating your kids now on the fact that there are people all over the world who do not know God loves them and sent His Son for them. Each class could select an unreached people group or missionary to pray for. Finally, you can pray for the children in your rooms—that one day some of them will go and share the gospel to those who have never heard it. 

Some final ideas for helping children develop a missional mindset include:

• Service opportunities within the church
• Service opportunities in the community with their small group of friends
• Practicing sharing the gospel with each other or with small group leaders
• Inviting families from other countries in their circles of influence over for dinners, play dates, etc. 
• Hosting Bible studies at school, with a soccer team, etc. 

The truth is, there are all kinds of ways that kids can be missional if we just tell them that they have what it takes with the power of the Holy Spirit and that we are here to help them. In the end, we are simply giving them training wheels. We are helping them begin to think outwardly about their faith, cultivate a big heart for ministry, not be intimidated by sharing the gospel, and become familiar with the global heart of God. What an opportunity—if we as leaders would only take it! 

Anna served on the children’s ministry team at The Austin Stone Community Church in Austin, Texas from 2009-2017, first as a volunteer, then as full-time staff. She also wrote for six years for The Gospel Project for Kids curriculum. Anna currently works as an acquisitions editor for B&H Kids in Nashville. When she’s not writing or editing, you can find her reading a book, sipping tea, chatting with loved ones, attempting to record a podcast, or walking in the woods.

By Anna Sargeant

This is the last part of a 3-part series on what makes gospel-centered ministry: gospel-centered teaching, gospel-centered values, and gospel-centered interactions. I covered gospel-centered teaching and values in Parts 1 and 2, which you can find here and here. 

In these posts, we discovered that a gospel-centered ministry is a mindset more than anything else, and the third thing that shapes that mindset is gospel-centered interactions. By this, I mean demonstrating the spirit of the gospel for the kids in your relationships. There are dozens of ways to do this, but I will share seven that became clearest to me during my time in ministry:

1. Listen. 

Our gospel is an incarnate gospel. It’s about a God who came to earth and genuinely liked being with people. He brought children into His lap. He gathered around tables, hillsides, and shorelines with folks from every walk of life. He answered questions—even ridiculous ones, like who would be most significant in the kingdom of God. And He enjoyed asking questions, even though He already knew the answers. Why? Because asking questions produces conversation, and conversation draws out people’s hearts. 

Therefore, to show our kids this incarnate gospel, we have to ask questions and then listen to them. Doing so reflects the heart of Christ. It shows them how much we see them, love them, and want to know them, which is exactly what God does with each of us.

2. Apologize. 

Adults rarely apologize to children. This is probably because apologizing is a humbling experience, and we don’t want to look weak. But when you say, “I’m sorry. I was wrong,” you are showing kids your need for the gospel. After all, as a sinner saved by grace, you are humbled at the foot of the cross, and you are weak in God’s sight. Apologizing models confession and repentance to kids and models your own need for the gospel. 

Here’s a great litmus test for apologizing: if you would apologize to your mother, spouse, or best friend for doing whatever it was you did, then apologize to the child in your class for doing it. 

3. Model preaching the gospel to yourself. 

Use moments of sadness, frustration, disappointment, and more to help kids understand how the gospel message applies to their entire life. 

For example, let’s say a child runs away from you when you’re trying to correct them. Perhaps they are running away out of shame or fear. When they finally sit down with you, you can explain that running away is something all humans like to do; even Adam ran away in the garden after sinning against God. But the great thing about the gospel is that we never have to run from God again. It doesn’t matter how many times we sin; we do not have to be ashamed because Jesus paid for our sin in full when He died on the cross.  

4. Talk openly about your relationship with God.

These kids see you on Sundays and maybe one other day of the week. So talk about what your faith looks like the rest of the time! Talk about the prayers God has answered and the ones you’re still waiting on. Share what God is teaching through your personal Bible readings and how you are growing closer to Him. Ask the kids how their weeks with God went. Did they hear a new Bible story? Did they start praying something new? 

The point here is to talk about Jesus normally and casually like He is an integrated part of your everyday life . . . because He is! This shows the kids your daily need for the gospel. 

5. Do not show favoritism. 

We do not show favoritism because God does not show favoritism. This is a massive aspect of the gospel. The gospel is offered to everyone, no matter where you are from, what you look like, how much money you have, etc. The gospel also affirms the dignity of every human being, declaring that all have been made in God’s image, fall short of the glory of God, and need His grace. All are equal in the sight of God.

To reject favoritism shows our kids that God does not prefer certain kinds of children over others, which is a message they might not hear anywhere else. If you sense yourself discriminating against a child in your ministry, address the issue right away through confession, repentance, and potentially asking for help from other leaders with that child.

6. Do not give up on them. 

Children can be a challenge sometimes. They can act up and act out. I know all too well what it’s like to see “that kid” walk through the door and groan a bit internally. 

Without the power of the gospel, we are just gritting our teeth and getting through the lesson. But because of the gospel, we know we are fully loved even in our sin. So by God’s grace, we don’t give up on our kids because they keep making the same mistakes. We ask Him for patience and perspective, and we trust that just as God is not finished with us, He is not finished with them.

7. Use personal illustrations when teaching the Bible. 

This final idea is for teachers preparing a large-group lesson. Use personal illustrations in teaching. I suggest this for two reasons:

1) We want children to start empathizing with the people in the text. 

2) We want kids to learn that none of us have “graduated from the gospel.”

By empathizing with people in the text, I mean instead of thinking of Jacob’s life as a historical lesson to learn from, we want the kids to think of Jacob as a real person, someone they can relate to, and someone who needed God too. Present Scripture less like a history book and more like a family-of-God story.

Consider a lesson on King Saul wanting to kill David. You could just tell the kids what happened and talk about how Jesus was a better king than Saul. You could also add something like this:

“King Saul is not the only one who struggled with jealousy. Just this week, I became jealous as I was scrolling through social media. My friend just got a new house, and I want one! 

Did you get jealous of someone this week? The gospel reminds us that God does not withhold good things from us, and if He does, it’s because He knows that the good thing isn’t the best thing. Whenever you are jealous, remember that we can trust God to give us what we need because He is so good, He already gave us Jesus!”

Using personal, age-appropriate examples of how you still need the gospel as an adult shows that Christians never “graduate” from it. 

In the end, a children’s ministry that prioritizes gospel-centered interactions is honest about our collective, desperate need for God. In such a ministry, the gospel is not stagnant. It is not something to simply learn or memorize. It is not a final point in a lesson or a formula for success. Instead, it’s our driving motivation for showing up in ministry. We want to give these kids the gospel just as we, ourselves, have encountered it.

For more on gospel-centered interactions, check out the following books:

Show them Jesus: Teaching the Gospel to Kids by Jack Klumpenhower

Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp

Give them Grace: Dazzling your Kids with the Love of Jesus by Elyse Fitzpatrick

Gospel Fluency: Speaking the Truths of Jesus into the Everyday Stuff of Life by Jeff Vanderstelt 

By Anna Sargeant

This post is part two of a three-part series about what makes a gospel-centered ministry: gospel-centered teaching, gospel-centered values, and gospel-centered interactions. I covered gospel-centered teaching in Part 1, which you can find here. In it, we discovered that a gospel-centered ministry is more of a mindset than anything else. The second thing that forms and shapes that mindset is your ministry’s values. 

Gospel-Centered Values

Values are essential for any organization. They say, ‘This is who we are and what we care about.” They establish purpose and priorities and guide the group in making significant decisions, like developing programs and policies, and in small decisions, like what brand of pencils to buy. Because values are so foundational for your children’s ministry, your volunteers must hear them repeatedly, parents must know them, and kids must sense them. Ultimately, your values will communicate what you think is a “win” in ministry, and that’s why they must be rooted in the gospel.

During the end of my time on staff in children’s ministry, we lived and breathed three core values: Truth, Fun, and Love. Everything was measured against these values. If whatever it was didn’t fit under one of these, we didn’t do it. I’ll summarize them here.

Truth: We sought to teach the Word of God clearly and boldly, presenting difficult truths in child-friendly ways and not watering down the gospel. We sought to hold the Word of God in the highest esteem by loving our Bibles personally and teaching Scripture with precision and care. 

Fun: We wanted the kids to laugh, play, be silly, and dance. We sought to break down walls through games and levity so that the kids might see that life in Christ is an abundant and joyful life, not a rigid or legalistic one.

Love: We wanted kids to sense the supernatural, grace-filled, and unlimited love of God through us. By following researched-based approaches to discipline and teaching, we sought to care for every child, including those with special needs, in ways that were best for their development. We wanted kids to feel God’s love so that they could turn around and love others!

These three values played off of one another. We believed children could not learn the truth unless they felt loved and were having fun. But that didn’t mean the value of truth played second fiddle! Our goal was always to introduce kids to the Truth (Jesus) so that, through a relationship with Him and trust in His Word, they might love a more joyful, love-filled life.

As a practical example of how these values played out in decision-making, our worship team created a children’s worship album that reflected these values. The musicians wrote doctrinally rich children’s songs (truth), choreographed dance moves for them (fun), and recorded the albums and videos to sing along to at church, at home, or with friends as an outreach tool (love). Our values informed our plans. There are lots of children’s ministries who would have never done this. But with the resources at our disposal and the values in place, it was a no-brainer to us!

Ultimately, whatever your ministry values, you will talk about and be excited about. Whatever you value, you will put your time and energy toward it. And whatever you value, you will spend money on. This is why you need to know what you value and make sure it’s rooted in the gospel.

To be clear, Truth, Fun, and Love are not the only gospel-centered values a ministry might have! Your ministry values might be Hospitality, Diversity, and Worship. Or maybe Pursue Wisdom, Show Grace, and Seek Outreach. There are dozens of words or phrases that you could choose that would give your ministry direction. The point is that it’s vital to choose gospel-centered values intentionally and stick to them. Otherwise, parents won’t know what to expect, volunteers will end up operating according to their own sets of values, and your ministry to the kids will be less effective overall. 

So as a leader, ask these questions about your values regularly:

1. Do I know the ministry’s values and the heart behind them? 
2. Do my volunteers know the values and the heart behind them?
3. Do these values reflect the gospel? In what ways?
4. In what areas are we upholding our values? 
5. In what areas are we deviating from our values? 
6. Are there any values we need to let go of or change? 

Having strong, gospel-centered values will help everyone involved in your ministry maintain a gospel-centered mindset. And with the continued guidance of the Holy Spirit, this will cultivate a more gospel-centered ministry. 

Anna served on the children’s ministry team at The Austin Stone Community Church in Austin, Texas from 2009-2017, first as a volunteer, then as full-time staff. She also wrote for six years for The Gospel Project for Kids curriculum. Anna currently works as an acquisitions editor for B&H Kids in Nashville. When she’s not writing or editing, you can find her reading a book, sipping tea, chatting with loved ones, attempting to record a podcast, or walking in the woods.